think realistic prior to election

Today is election day.. and there’s lots of opinion, critics and stuffs. Well, to be honest, I’m so not into it. There’s a reason for it for sure,, yeah apart from my apolitical mind, another reason is realistic thinking, which I think not so many Indonesians are thinking the way I am.

According to me, whoever win the election and elected to be the ruler of the country, none of them can realize what they say they would in the near future . Every candidate has his/ her ups and downs, for me, none of them suits the position, frankly speaking. It’s all bout what and how much loss u’ll afford to pay in the mean time. U’ve to given up some to get something in returns, no gain no pain. Well, I would say no offense to those people who might get offended, because I think I’m saying it based on reality, not the whole bugs of promises and premises.

First, people are all thinkin’ way too simple for such complicated ones. I mean, it’s all the problem of materialism and those parliament reps are no exception. The materialism virus have been so contagious and widely spread during Soeharto’s time. Well, how long did the Soeharto reign ? everyone knows it, 32 years. If that’s 32 years was the period of time to raise only one baby to a mature man, then whatever habit the man has, sure it will be damn hard to change his habit by now. And moreover if this man has got a baby, then the child would be educated in the way the man were. So in the end, u’ve got exponential growth of these “materialism worshippers”

So, I’m not trying to be on anyone’s side, but just be realistic. How’re u gonna fix things which has been going on for 32 years, and suddenly u’ve got to stop everything or at least most of them merely in 5 years and u got kicked out the next second. I’m pretty sure no human can ever fix those in a sec. Yet there are some people still can’t see this. I guess, they might have some problems with logical thinking or whatever medical term for this kind brain disorder.

Those candidates might offer us a lot. But look, first they’ve never been in the position as the current president is, so if they got elected, they would need some time to adapt to the real deal. Well, even if those who’ve been once elected as a president a period ago, still, the situation between now and years ago are not the same, so they would need to go thru the same adaptation process. So basically choosing another candidate will just start the whole healing process all over again.. or perhaps even moving backwards, yeah u never know.

oohh.. it's been so long--- self intro

well yeah.. it's been ages ago since i stopped blooging... but now i think i just need somewhere to pour my feeling out .. i used to be active in friendster blogging but now i'm using blogspot.com.. so i kinda start the new whole thing.

i love cake decorating so much that last yeat i spent my time exploring the world of cake decorating. it was so fascinating.. even though i realise that it had wasted some of my precious time, mostly after the 1st 6 months of last year but now... i think i kinda have to put my passion away for a while, but i'm not letting it go because it's sumthin that u really fond of... so i still hold my dream tightly that one day i hope to open a bakery or cake shop sumthin like that... (cross finger)

i have to face the reality that my dad only has 2 daughters. there were times when i wished i had had a bro so badly.. however, facts are facts... u got nowhere to run but face it. at the end i still feel so grateful of my life... i mean i have a good family and stuffs... i think as a human we have to feel grateful of our life.. some people might say that it was easy for me to say so because i've never had a hard life... but in my opinion... no matter how good and bountiful a life of a person, if he never feels grateful.. then he will always think that he's the most unluckiest person alive... so, in short.. u're the one who creates either a misery or a bless of your life, not the life u live, not the people surrounds u, not the environment u live in but it's you, yourself...

now i help my dad to run his more than 15 years old automotive business.. well, frankly speaking as a young woman like me... i dun really have lots of time left so help my parents... yeah i mean getting married and having kids is now getting closer to me... however i still hope to give my best before i finally quit for good. by the way.. i still do baking! quite regularly actually.. i love to modify recipes so much that sometimes it turns out weirdo but some turns out fantastic... i really enjoy being the way i am now.. i dun care i some people are speaking ill and sick bout me- i'm an australian uni graduate and yet now back in town to run the little business kind of thing- yeah whatever i i dun owe them anyting but one thing for sure is i owe my whole life to my parents so why should i care so much of those busy bodies???